Barbara E. Clark, 93
June 02, 2024
Barbara E. Clark, 93, of Lancaster, passed away on Sunday, June 2, 2024 at Penn State Lancaster Hospital.
She was born April 6, 1931 in Newville, PA to James Howard Fry and Barbara Ellen (Quawn) Fry. She was the wife of Ralph E. “Mike” Clark, Jr. They were married for 61 years prior to his passing in 2016.
Barbara was raised in Lancaster and attended Lancaster City Schools. After high school, Barbara completed an apprenticeship as a seamstress at Mary Sachs store where she became known as one of Lancaster’s finest seamstresses. She then went to work at the first Casual Corner store in Lancaster. Barbara also worked for Shirley Summers Bridal Shop doing alterations on gowns for several years. After 15 years or working as a skilled seamstress, she became a homemaker and stayed home to raise her three children. Barbara enjoyed knitting, crocheting, and needlework. She enjoyed shopping and going out to eat. She also enjoyed making clothes for her daughter, Stephanie and doing alterations for friends. Barbara and her husband, Mike always had an open-door policy, especially at holidays, would welcome anyone who needed a place to stay or needed a meal. She enjoyed taking trips with her husband in the fall to Skyline Drive and Harpers Ferry, WV. She was a person who always made friends wherever she went. She was loved by many and will be sorely missed.
Barbara is survived by twin sons: Michael S. Clark and his wife Susan Eshelman of Lancaster, and Jeffrey A. Clark and his wife Margaret of Harrisburg; her daughter, Stephanie L. Logan (who was her best friend and caregiver) and her husband Sidmot of Lancaster; a brother, Wellington Fry of Lancaster; her sister-in-law, Joanna Williams of Lancaster; a goddaughter, Nicole Ray of Narberth, PA; a special nephew, Gary Fry of Lancaster and a special great-nephew, Douglas Johnson, who Mike and Barbara raised like a son; a special niece, Barbara Johnson who assisted with Barbara’s caregiving during her illness; and a number of nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Ralph E. “Mike” Clark; her sisters, Joan Fry, Jacqueline Barbour, and Myrtle Johnson; and brothers, Cecil Fry and Richard Fry.
Homegoing services will be held at 1PM on Saturday, June 8, 2024 at Ebenezer Baptist Church, 701 N. Lime St., Lancaster, with Rev. Roland P. Forbes, Jr. officiating. Family and friends will be received prior to the service at 12PM. Burial will follow in Mellinger Mennonite Cemetery.
The family would like to give special thanks to Jennifer Van Blargan for her continued support and care she provided to Barbara.
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June 10, 2024
Steph,
I was so sad to hear of your mom’s passing. It was always a pleasure to chat with her; she was such a great lady!
All our love at this difficult time,
Deb and Barry Albright
June 08, 2024
I feel honored and privileged to have known Mrs. Clark. I didn’t have the pleasure of knowing her for a lifetime or even years, but in just a few months this woman’s kindness and gentle soup radiated. I pray her family and friend’s find peace and strength through this difficult time. And Stephanie, I have witnessed many good caregivers in my career but none quite like you. The love and dedication you had for your mother was one of a kind and did not go unnoticed. You showed great selflessness, devotion and love and I feel it deserves recognition. You are an amazing human being and I am grateful to have witnessed the love you and your mom shared. It’s time for you to take care of yourself and I hope in time you will do so. Nurse Aubrey
June 08, 2024
Stephy and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Love,
Keith
June 08, 2024
Stephy, Michael and Jeff,
I give my deepest condolences.May the love and memories you shared bring you comfort and strength in the days ahead. Her presence graced our lives with warmth and love, and her departure leaves a void that words can scarcely fill. I take solace in knowing that my Aunt Bobbie lived the best and fullest life possible.
Stephy, Michael and Jeff took the best care of her. Before and during her illness Stephy made sure she wanted for absolutely nothing!
Aunt Bobbie had a spark and a sassiness no one in their right mind would dare to challenge. She had a way with words for sure and I will miss hearing them. She helped to raise me and I often told her how she was an integralpart in shaping who I am today. I love her and will miss her immensely.
Love always and forever,
Birdie
June 07, 2024
Steph,
We are so sad to hear of your mom’s passing! It was a sad day at Medical Infusion when you called in to tell us. We hope you are finding peace during this tough time. I know she is eating popcorn and watching Wendy Williams up in heaven!
Love, Kam and the MIC team 🙂
June 07, 2024
I grew up across the street from the Clarks and even after I grew up and moved away part of my ritual whenever I returned home was to stop by and spend time with Mrs Clark. I truly enjoyed our time together reminiscing about all the families on East End Avenue.
I will greatly miss her.
June 06, 2024
DEAR MIKE, JEFF, AND STEPH KNOW AND BELIEVE THAT YOU GUYS ARE IN MY HEART YOUR MOM WAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PERSON MAY SHE REST IN PEACE AND GOD BLESS YOU GUYS WHILE YOU GO THROUGH THIS TIME.LOVE YOU ALL MY CONDOLENCES. KATHY
June 06, 2024
To the Family: Our Deepest condolences!
Theresa & Victor Mendez.
June 06, 2024
Barbara had such a beautiful heart. I was her phlebotomist for about a yr then they made me part of the family. Steph has been great through it all. I love them both. Barbara will be greatly missed.
Myrna
June 06, 2024
My prayers to Stephie, Mike and Jeff. Aunt Bobbie will be truly missed but she gained her wings and will now be with Uncle Mike and her siblings. What a gathering they will have. Cherish the memories and know she will be with you always in spirit and in your hearts. I love you all, as Aunt Bobbie would say “Linny Finx”. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
June 06, 2024
To my Cousin, Stephanie, Mike and Jeff! My Deepest Condolences!! You all know I love each of you very much!
I am so glad, I got to see Aunt Barb in one of my recent trips back home to Lancaster, had a some good laughs and conversation with her, and her always calling me, Little Bad Cookie, saying you look her your mom, but you’re little June!! I felt her love for me and that means the world to me!!
Rest well Aunt Barb, tell Uncle Mikie hello and both my parents and the rest of our family!!
Until, Love Cookie Williams Plowden!!
June 06, 2024
Stephanie, Mike and Jeff, so sorry to hear about your mother’s passing. You will be in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time
Maria Hazangeles Grant
June 06, 2024
What a beautiful memorial for a spectacular woman! It was such an honor to get to care for her and know her and her daughter Stephanie. They adopted me as their family, which has given me great joy.
Barb was a very special lady and she did make friends everywhere she went. She loved her sweets! We had so many great conversations that I will treasure!
I’m so thankful that God brought Barb and Stephanie into my life.
I will always remember Barb for her smile and spunk and am so thankful I had the privilege of knowing her.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Stephanie. I love you!
Jennifer
June 06, 2024
The world was a better place with you here I will miss sending you love but I know your in a better place with all the family up there in heaven keeping laughing and sleep well my Aunt I love you always and forever never will you be forgotten.
Aldine(Beaner)Stewart
